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Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Traditional Tibetan Wedding Traditions



Weddings or other dealings Tibetan people will draw a point means or “δΈ‡” Fabricate in front of the house also sling the Sutra banner on the roof.
In Tibetan areas, released love is generally in many juvenile men and women, their parents and relatives will not interfere in. As for courtship, or bare, or vague, fluctuate by different people from place to place. Some sing the lyric songs mutually; some chairs girls are robbed of the hat, rings, scarves and other items (if the girls do not want to be their lover, they can both precisely or ask somebody else to get them returned. Or, if trust in silence or maxim out a year, they are willing to make links too.) Once get promised by the lass, the boys can time in the girl’s department. With the visit appointments, the feelings of both extend, they may give presents to one another and show their parents that they want to get together, after their parents arranged, they will launch to fire betrothal gift, and converse the wedding schedule.
In some agricultural and pastoral areas, nuptials for childish men and women, it will universal be followed as "parents’ will and tally-maker’s introduction." When juvenile men take a swanky to the female, they tempt a game-maker taking the amethyst hada and any other stuff to the lady’s house. If the female’s family decided to the nuptials, the will cocktail the mauve and accept other presents, then the match-maker will come again to confer more niceties about the wedding such as the gift, dowry quantity varies, but generally not too much to dodge the neighbors contacts and relatives’ gossip; otherwise, the marriage chop through. Also it is prevalent in some areas that the men and women agreed in secret, receiving away from home, but it gradually cheap in latest existence.
The day before the wedding, the spruce will transmit the wedding escorts together with the match-maker convey violet, Hatta and other objects to the bride's home preparing the wedding. This night, the bride-to-be will be in the baptism and dress up. The next day, the bride-to-be will worship the family gods, ancestors and parents, bridesmaids will command along the bride, the bride in tears, accompanied with bridesmaids and then with friends, matchmaker and marriage escorts so that such allow together. Before the arrival, the bridegroom’ family will stop and set a wedding toast not far from the house.
When the bride came to the door, the comb will lay the new woolen carpet scattered with highland barley before the charger the bride outing, send hada or toast for the matchmaker, the wedding escorts.
Women will help the bride to get off the mare, bathe the bride’s face with milk, and play charcoal vinegar to virtuous the body with the omission of good opulence. After record the house, the parson will recite prayers, the bride and clean pray the heaven and the earth, the family god and parents. Then the bride and the prime will input their nuptial chamber. The guests will be seated in the dinner. Some will be sited in the sheep pen in the eastern agricultural matter; people are sited on the ground drinking milk tea, intake oiled fruit. In some areas, the guests will be served the noodles for ridiculing the guests, as it is the custom, the guests do not demur it. After dinner, thanks to the matchmaker, the mother-in-law will be untaken "jiu mao jiula" (hand-stitching filament negligee).
Finally the hoard and the guests slurp, sing, and dance, laughing and chatting gladly through day and night. From the next day, the spruce’s family will take the outing to feast the guests, presenting the gifts, which will last to three or four living.

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